Divorce
This study doesn’t deal with the rightness or wrongness of the divorce issue. It is working with the person and helping them to win over the trauma and devastation that comes from a divorce.
Dealing With Divorce Issues
If you are divorced, and you know you are in a good relationship with God, and you are suffering from the divorce, and this suffering is the major issue you are facing, then this study with Jesus is the one that will help you the most. Just select the “Divorce” title in the gray box and it will take you to that study.
I Feel Guilty About Getting Divorced
If God is dealing with you about having gotten divorced and is saying that what you did was wrong, then you may need to go to the Life study by selecting the “Life” word. If your life has areas in it that need help, renewal, repair, and improvement in your relationship with Jesus, then the Life study will help. If you are not sure whether the guilt you feel is from God, then you may need to go to the “Guilt” word in the gray box and ask Jesus to take you through that.
The general “Life” study will help with issues you are having with your conscience and your relationship with God. Another study that may be the answer to a breached relationship with God is the “spiritual” study. It deals very specifically with your relationship with your heavenly Father. All your struggles with divorce may go away just as soon as you make things right with God. Pray and ask Jesus if He wants you to join Him in the divorce study, the life study, or the spiritual study.
Depending on what you and Jesus decide, any one of those studies will help you with your relationship with God. They will teach you how to talk to Him and find out what His will is for your life. Any one of these studies will expose you to Jesus and the Bible in such a way that you will get the clarity, peace, truth, and help you need so you can enjoy life.
Handling Your Mistakes
You may have done something that was wrong; and, you may have done it knowing God was against it. Then later, you can try to straighten it out. But, your method of “straightening” it out may cause as many problems for you as the wrong deed. Before you try to handle decisions you made concerning divorce, you need to take your situation before Jesus and let Him help you make the right one. Guilt, depression, assumptions, self-justification, and human effort can take a bad situation and make it worse.
Don’t just decide you did wrong; don’t just decide you did right; don’t just decide whose fault it was. Jesus’ forgiveness and healing don’t deal with guilt, fault, what you deserve, or how bad it was. He deals in grace that gives you things you don’t have to deserve. He gives you mercy that keeps you from getting punished for anything you did wrong. He gives you gifts that don’t have anything to do with what you can do in return. He will start your life over based on His supernatural power that is bigger and better than anything you or anyone else can do.
Getting Back With A Spouse
If you are divorced, and God is dealing with you about going back to your spouse, and your spouse is willing to consider getting back with you, and it is something both of you are willing to work on, then read the description in the “Marriage” introduction. Ask Jesus if He wants to take you through that study; see if He says it would help you get back together with your spouse.
Divorce Was The Right Thing To Do
Once again, if you are divorced, and you know you are in a good relationship with God, and you are suffering from the divorce, and this suffering is the major issue you are facing, then this study with Jesus is the one that will help you the most. Just select the “Divorce” word in the gray box and it will take you to that study.
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